Short memory. Every moment is a reset. “Being present” in action, it’s a natural state, you don’t need to want to “be present”, it just is.

So, do everything for the joy of the moment, do not have expectations for merits to accumulate for the future. When u want to accumulate, that means you still have fear.

Love him fully, do pleasurably what pleases him, that’s the full present. Love really helps you to do that.